Wouldn’t it be lovely if we could all drop $100,000 on a wedding? I’d love it. But it’s just not a reality for most people.
The good news is, you don’t need that kind of money to have an unbelievable wedding. The secret: You don’t have to spend too much money. Instead, you can use time and creativity to make it gorgeous, and a phenomenal time for all your guests.
I’ve seen a ton of weddings, and in my experience, there are great ways to pull off a budget wedding and some ways that just don’t work. Here are my three top ideas for making your wedding fit your budget, without sacrificing style.
1. Cut your guest list.
I know it’s hard to hear, but the single best way to save money on your wedding is to invite fewer people. The alternative is not being able to properly feed, entertain and pay attention to your guests. More intimate weddings are on the way in, anyway, and it takes some of the stress out of your big day.
Think about possibly inviting just family and close friends for a more personal event. Then, really spoil those guests that mean the most to you with a nice meal and lots of personal attention from you, the bride and groom. Guests go out of their way to attend weddings, and it’s only right to make sure you thank each of them personally for coming.
2. Pick a different time.
In the wedding world (particularly in the Pacific Northwest, with its pronounced seasons), everyone wants to get married on a Saturday in July or August. Well, there are only eight of those Saturdays each year, so they’re like gold to wedding vendors. If you pick a different day of the week or time of year, you’re much more likely to be able to get off-season or weekday discounts with venues and vendors (I offer a 10% discount to off-season couples).
Have a winter wedding with a white-on-white snowy theme to take advantage of slower winter months, or have a fun cocktail party wedding on a Thursday or Friday night. Weeknight weddings are gaining a lot of popularity, and they’re an opportunity to buck some of the more traditional aspects of the wedding and really have fun with friends and family.
You can also go your own way by scheduling your wedding at an unusual time of day. Host a morning wedding and serve brunch following the ceremony as a way to save money on food, but still send everyone home satisfied. You can also do a dessert-only reception, but make sure you don’t schedule your wedding during dinnertime, because guests will come hungry and be unpleasantly surprised.
3. Use your imagination
Lots of couples think that since they don’t have much money to spend, they don’t have many options for decorations or a theme. I think the opposite is true — being short on money can force you to think outside the box and come up with some really original ideas that make for a fresh theme for your wedding. You can buy cheap citrus bulk and use them as centerpieces, like I did in an inspiration shoot in March. Lately, I’ve been dreaming of styling an entire wedding using artichokes — if you played it right, I think it could be very Anthropologie. Go vintage and collect plates, glasses and silverware at thrift stores before the wedding, pick wildflowers in a field and use them for your bouquets and centerpieces or fold a thousand paper cranes. Think beyond the traditional ideas and pave your own way by using items that mean something to you and finding the beauty in the everyday object.

Because every post is better with a photo, I thought I’d share this one from my own mother’s day celebration a couple of weeks ago. I made this centerpieces from tin cans, IKEA tealights, mason jars I had sitting around and flowers from my mom’s garden. It was beautiful (and everyone loved it), but it only cost me about a buck (for the tealights).